I truthfully don’t know what to call this. So i dragged my tired self into my apartment this morning and decided to return a few calls…
“Hi, i called you yesterday, actually twice and you did not pick.”
” I was engaged and had a lot to handle. Good morning and Happy New Year.” I responded
” Where were you?” the caller demanded to know. I thought we had agreed that you should go see her before the festive season is over.”
Now i have no recollection of such conversation and keep in mind that this is someone that i am speaking to for the second time. Having met a few weeks ago.
” I just arrived here a few minutes ago and i didn’t promise anything of the sort. I will make time and go see her as soon as i can. It is important to me. Thank you for the reminder.”
” Well then we will go there next weekend, on Saturday. If you cannot drive, i will pick you up myself. This cannot be dragged on, i do not think you are interested in solving this matter. Let’s go see her right now, it’s early.”
The conversation went on and on, and i reminded the caller that i would do it when i was ready. Honestly, even with all my fatigue i was wondering when the plate of respect would be served. Much as i appreciate the efforts to achieving reconciliation, i believe it must be done honorably. Now schools of thought have explained the different personalities and characters; the sanguine, melancholic and the rest. The extroverts and introverts, but eishhh!!!
Do you get me? Have you ever spoken to somebody either in person over the phone or by text and felt like they just crossed the line, boundary wall depending on how well acquainted or close you are… A person that may unintentionally earn an eye roll or the bare hand smack or a walk away…i mean that would earn me a “side eye” from my maama and i would sit my tiny butt down. However, today all those thoughts run through my mind. The conclusions, and making assumptions without questions irk me…that’s a topic for another day though.
Just sharing my thoughts for the day! Tell me what you think this is….my mind is still ice cold….
On a lighter note…..
Happy New Year♥♥♥
RawandReal
Raw and Real 